Woman followers

This Shabad is to learn the value of Not to fall head over heals over women.  It doesn’t mean not to love and protect women as our sisters, mothers, daughters and a one wife.  Not to treat women as a prostitute or slaves. A woman is not an item and don’t follow it like an item. The translation below is taken directly from Adh Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji. If anyone wishes can click the link below to read directly.

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This Shabad is by Guru Raam Daas Ji in Raag Gauree on Pannaa 304

mÚ 4 ]
ma 4 ||
Fourth Mehla:
 
swrw idnu lwlic AitAw mnmuiK hory glw ]
saaraa dhin laalach attiaa manamukh horae galaa ||
The self-willed manmukh is occupied with greed all day long, although he may claim otherwise.
 
rwqI aUGY dibAw nvy soq siB iFlw ]
raathee ooghai dhabiaa navae soth sabh dtilaa ||
At night, he is overcome by fatigue, and all his nine holes are weakened.
 
mnmuKw dY isir jorw Amru hY inq dyvih Blw ]
manamukhaa dhai sir joraa amar hai nith dhaevehi bhalaa ||
Over the head of the manmukh is the order of the woman; to her, he ever holds out his promises of goodness.
 
jorw dw AwiKAw purK kmwvdy sy Apivq AmyD Klw ]
joraa dhaa aakhiaa purakh kamaavadhae sae apavith amaedhh khalaa ||
Those men who act according to the orders of women are impure, filthy and foolish.
 
kwim ivAwpy kusuD nr sy jorw puiC clw ]
kaam viaapae kusudhh nar sae joraa pushh chalaa ||
Those impure men are engrossed in sexual desire; they consult their women and walk accordingly.
 
siqgur kY AwiKAY jo clY so siq purKu Bl Blw ]
sathigur kai aakhiai jo chalai so sath purakh bhal bhalaa ||
One who walks as the True Guru tells him to, is the true man, the best of the best.
 
jorw purK siB Awip aupwieAnu hir Kyl siB iKlw ]
joraa purakh sabh aap oupaaeian har khael sabh khilaa ||
He Himself created all women and men; the Lord Himself plays every play.
 
sB qyrI bxq bxwvxI nwnk Bl Blw ]2]
sabh thaeree banath banaavanee naanak bhal bhalaa ||2||
You created the entire creation; O Nanak, it is the best of the best. ||2||